What if you have broken up with your boyfriend or girlfriend but regretting it? Or you may have quarreled with them and they are thinking of leaving? Perhaps you can bombard them with text messages to say you are sorry and ask for another chance. But then again, what if they have blocked you in their moment of anger? What would you do then?
Well, one way is to go back to the conventional method of writing a letter and mailing it. Sometimes, the old fashion snail mail is still more effective. It may also look more sincere when you actually write it out with a pen and paper. Below are 2 sample love letters asking for a second chance after a break up.
Can I Have Another Chance Love Letter
If your other half has broken up with you and you know you are the one at fault, there is no other way but to apologize. Acknowledge their pain too. So, in the second chance love letter below, there is expression of love, apology, yearning, and request for another go at the relationship.
Dearest <Name>,
Days/Months have passed since we broke up. But I still think of you everyday. Of what it could have been between us. What if we have persevered and worked things out? What if I had put in more effort to show you that I love you? Would things be different then?
People often say out of sight means out of mind. Or time will make us forget our pain. But why am I not finding it to be so? Maybe falling in love isn’t easy for me. So, why should forgetting the person I fell in love with be any different?
If I dare to love, I should dare to confront the problems it brings. I love you and that is enough for me to want to correct my wrongs and be a better person for you. I want a future with you in it whereby I can give you the happiness you deserve.
I’m Sorry
There are problems between us and I don’t deny that. And I’m regretting for not looking things from your perspective in the heat of the moment. I know I have hurt you and for that, I’m truly sorry. But my heart breaks too knowing how much pain you have to endure.
It is not easy for you for sure. There are things I could have done to make things smoother between us. I know I have missed that opportunity and I can only be angry with myself for not seizing it when there is a chance. You have high hopes when we started dating and I have let you down without realizing.
I guess I deserve the heartbreak when you choose to walk away. I would too if I’m been hurt so much. You need to get away from me to escape from it all and I understand perfectly. I would let you go if that is what you ultimately want but not before I make an attempt to express my apology and love for you.
Can I Have Another Chance?
Perhaps it is too late for me to say I love you and ask for another chance. You might even think that it is meaningless now. But I know I will regret it if I don’t even try.
I really, really want you back in my life. I long to hold you in my arms again. That is all I can think about these days. I can’t fall asleep at night as I yearn to have you beside me. Sometimes, I find myself rehearsing all the things that I want to say to you. I’m thankful that you have found me before and I’m now hoping you will find me again to be in your life.
<Name>, please give me another chance to prove how much I love you. Words can’t describe how much I want our relationship to work out. My dreams will be crushed if you say no because my heart belongs to you and you alone. I can’t wait to see you again so that I can tell you face to face that I love you. Will you give me that chance again?
Missing you much,
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Let’s Talk Love Letter
Dearest <Name>,
I have been checking my phone so often hoping that you would call. I truly miss your voice and for the first time in our relationship, I’m really afraid of losing you. It will be hard to bear it if you shut me out of your life.
I don’t know why we have ended up this way in our relationship. Neither do I know how we got here. It is like a dead end that we have gotten ourselves in. Do I love you? Absolutely! Do I want to see you go? No! Never! So, how did we end up hurting each other like this?
There is nothing more that I want than for you to be happy. Often, your happiness is even more important than my own. But somehow, we just get sidetracked by life’s daily routines and pressures and then get blinded by our own selfish wants and desires. Perhaps I have also forgotten how to love you in a way that makes you feel special and appreciated.
We Need To Talk
I really don’t want our relationship to end. Having you in my life forever has always been my plan. I don’t want to walk away just because we are having some problems lately. Instead, I want to talk and I want you to tell me everything – how you feel, what you want from me, how you want us to lead our lives, and where I can improve.
Let us open up the communication channels between us. I hope that we can talk things over so that I know how to love you better and make you happier. Be honest with me even if it hurts. I’d rather you be frank with your feelings that burying them in your heart. I don’t want you to lose that glow of happiness on your face because of me.
Give Me A Chance
I know I should have been more attentive and sensitive to your needs. If I have talked to you sooner, things wouldn’t have piled up until we can’t see the path ahead of us. But I hope it is not too late now to start. Give me a chance to tell you how I feel and vice-versa. A chance to bring this relationship back to the days it once was. A chance to show you once again that I know how to love you the way you want me to.
It is not over between us yet, and it will never be if I’m allowed to choose. So, <Name>, let’s talk. Shall we?
Love,
<Signature/Name>
Will A Second Chance Love Letter Work?
Unfortunately, no one will have any definite answer to that. If you want to express your feelings, you can always tell your boyfriend or girlfriend directly. But if you don’t even have a chance to speak to them, then writing a letter is the next best thing that you can do.
Naturally, not everyone will be moved by a love letter. Asking for a second chance is already an indication that there are problems in the relationship to begin with. Otherwise, you wouldn’t need to ask for another opportunity to make things work. So, even if you pen your feelings and ask for a second chance in your love letter, a lot also depends on what has happened and what you have done to your beloved.
I guess what I’m trying to get at is that you could write to ask for a second chance if you have no other way of communicating with your other half. At least, there is still a chance that they will reciprocate if you do something rather than nothing. But just be mindful that a letter, no matter how beautifully written, is no guarantee of success!
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